Here is another thing I do, when my wife and I are pressed for time, I still try to straighten up and organize the house in some way. How have I not driven her crazy is beyond me. If I were her and she acted like me, I would probably sent her to a special home for the clinically insane. I am hard to live with and when I get focused on one thing, I tend to forget the rest.
She must love me, if she did not, she would have locked me away and thrown the key. I am trying everyday to get this right. I still make the same mistakes, but not as often, at least in my opinion, probably not my wife's. I know I will go home today and apologize to her and she will say, "You are always sorry." I will reply, "What else can I do?" Well, I could not make those mistakes again and again.
Well here is a book on marriage that couples might find interesting.