Every night, my wife and I try to have a wrap up meeting, so we know what happened for the day and what is going to happen tomorrow. We discuss up coming appointments, and the biggest discussion we have is the BUDGET.
If one of you does the budget and the other one wouldn't even know what a budget looks like if it bit him or her in the ass, well you might just have a problem. Money is the number 1 killer of all marriages. Trust me, I have seen my marriage's foundation begin to crumble because of money problems.
What I am trying to say is, couples need to do the budget together. I am not saying that you both need to plan it together, but if one plans the budget, the other one needs to implement it correctly. This will only work if there is communication. A daily wrap up.
Now you might be wondering why I called it code 2.5, well it goes hand in hand with kissing your significant other, kiss them and you will communicate with them. My advice is, and yes I decided to change the title too a little husband advice, to listen and communicate what and how you feel to your spouse.
Anyway, this is what I must conclude with, if you don't talk, then the mortar of your marriage's foundation will begin to crumble and finally the house will fall down.
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