The Code Part 4

Well, I must apologize for such a long time between my last entry in my blog.  I hope that you all didn't miss me as much as I missed you.
Here it is, the fourth code in the world of relationships.  When you are married or in a serious relationship, especially if you live with that person, you must have realized by now that if you two are going to work, you must never give up.  Never stop communicating or your relationship will die.  Giving up is what too many people do these days and relationships are work and a partnership.  Love, sex and children take a cetain design that we must work at to keep it all going.
The past four years I have been failing as a partner to my wife and I look at myself and feel like such a failure.  I will not let this happen anymore.  I will succeed, not because that is what she wants.  I will succeed because I need to do it for myself and in the end I will be a partner for my wife.
Many people think that you have to live up to other people's expectation to succeed.  I have a mother who has always lived up to my step-father and me.  I know she loves me, but I wish she had lived her own life in some way.
What I am trying to say, if you are going to be successful, do it for yourself, then spread the wealth.  This is how you become a partner to your significant other.  This is how you succeed.  This is how you take care of yourself and your family.  Communicate with her and everyone around you.  Never give up on you, her and your family and you will succeed.