Explaining the Code

To all my readers, it has come to my attention that some people do not understand the code.  The code has a few different meaning and I will explain.
First of all, I told you before in an earlier entry, that I am a movie buff.  The word, code, comes from a movie called Zombieland, if you haven't seen it yet, you should, it is funny.  One of the main characters has a code for dealing with Zombies and it is funny.  Now I am not saying I or anyone in our family is a zombie, but some of the codes are funny.
The other side of the code is a serious one.  The code is an advice blog to help any married man or any man in a serious relationship.  The code does not  mean that you must tip toe around your significant other.  It means that you need to listen, communicate and appreciate her.
I love being married and I love my wife.  She is the most amazing woman I have ever met and anyone who thinks more of her, good.  Anyone who thinks less of her, shame on you.  My wife is also an amazing mother and I am always dumbfounded by her patiences with them.  I don't think most men have the patiences that women do.
When I said you should listen to your wife, I did not mean listen to everything she says.  One needs to understand that both of you should listen to each other.  Men have a tendency to listen less to their significant others, while it is the opposite for women.  They are very good listeners.
I have to explain that in the past six years, my wife has been my rock, through thick and thin.  I have made many mistakes and I am trying very hard to make up for lost time.
Last but not least, being married is a partnership, something I have only begun to learn.  I have much to learn from my wife and I love her so dearly.